A strange question indeed. It is not the same as asking “Who am I?” for which an answer can be readily given. This one is more complex . So see if you can answer the following without any hesitation 🙂 … or whether you agree with the answers.
“Am I my thoughts, the thoughts that I am thinking? No. Thoughts come and go; I am not my thoughts.
Am I my body? They tell us that millions of cells in our body are changing or are Continue reading
The most difficult thing is the world is to look, to see. We don’t want to look because if we do, we may change. If you look, you lose control of the life you are precariously holding onto. In order to wake up the one thing that you need the most….. is the readiness to learn something new.
The chances that you will wake up are in direct proportion to the amount of truth you can take without running away.
How much are you ready to take? How much of everything you have held dear are you ready to have shattered without running away? How ready are you to think of something unfamiliar?
The first reaction is one of fear. It’s not that we fear the unknown. You cannot fear something that you do not know. Nobody is afraid of the unknown. What you really fear is the loss of the known. That’s what you fear.
Extract : Awareness – The Perils and Opportunities of Reality. by Anthony De Mello
If you had to choose between happiness and something or someone that you desperately want, what would you choose?
It seems such an inane question … but think about it a moment. Aren’t there things in life, decisions we make every day that we know will not bring us happiness – and yet we make them?
As Anthony Mello de Mello puts it in his reflections on Awareness:
“…. we don’t want to be happy. We want other things. Or let’s put it more accurately: We don’t want to be unconditionally happy. I’m ready to be happy provided I have this, that and the other thing. But this is really to say to our friend, or to our God or to anyone, ‘You are my happiness. If I don’t get you, I refuse to be happy.’
It’s so important to understand that. We cannot imagine being happy without those conditions. That’s pretty accurate. We cannot conceive of being happy without them. We’ve been taught to place our happiness in them.”
So when you have to choose between happiness and something or someone that you want, what will you choose ? Honestly …..